Saturday, November 21, 2009

Missing you Mom

In only five short days it will be Thanksgiving. .I'm always amazed how quickly the holidays roll around from one year to the next and this year is no exception...once again I find myself saying, "Wasn't it just New Years?"

Thanksgiving is a great opportunity for families to gather around and eat WAY, WAY more than they want or need. I always love and dread this time of year. While I probably say this on my blog every holiday season, I totally love Christmas and the whole holiday season and the emotions and memories this blessed season bring. But for me the onset of the holidays is also a time of sadness as I'm reminded that my sweet Mom's passed away 10 years ago in December. Having a family member pass away so close to a major holiday always leaves a lasting effect; a little dark shadow over a very wonderful time of year.

My goal is not to bring you down, but only to introduce the reasoning behind today's post and why I would create a MOM tag at this time of year when you would typically see this kind of thing around Mother's Day.

A few years ago I began a tradition of making an ornament or tag each year that I could hang on our Christmas tree as a little remembrance of those who were once a big part of my life - someone who shared in my Christmas joy, but are no longer here in person, but live on in spirit.

Today I want to share the tag I made for my Mom. I'll hang this tag from our Christmas tree as a small reminder, not that I'd every forget, but more of a small token of honor.

My mom always said that she would rather receive flowers when she was alive and could enjoy their beauty and smell their sweet fragrance, so I made sure that she received plenty of flowers over the course of her life. But the flowers that I give to her now that she's gone are more for my benefit than hers. It serves as a reminder of how much she enjoyed having a fresh arrangement on her table.

The lace that I used on her tag represents her love for all this antique and and the whole vintage look that decorated her home, and the pearls were her birthstone which she also loved.

The heart that I used behind the chipboard MOM reminds me of the great heart she had. I was an adopted child and the loved that she (and Dad) showed me touch me in such a profound way.

I would encourage you to create a tag or ornament for a loved one who can't be with you this holiday season. It's a lovely way to honor and remember them as well as give you time, as you create your project, to reflect on the person that they were and how they touched your life.

Thank you for coming by today and for your continued visits. They really warm my heart.

{Supplies}
Paper: Sweet Blush (PTI)
Ink: Regal Rose
Accessories: Thickers Chipboard Letters, Creme de Rouge Glimmer Mist (Tattered Angels) Diamond Lace Punch (Fiskars), Doodlebug Glitter, Fresh Chipboard Scroll Corner (Maya Road), Flourish Floret Mask (Tim Holtz) Strawberries & Cream Acrylic Paint (Making Memories), Lace (i{heart}papers) Clear Flowers (Making Memories), Pearls, Rose Flowers & Flourishes (Zva Creative), 1" Organdy Ribbon and Pink Gingham Ribbon (SU), Button from stash, Pearl Heart (Buttons Galore & More)

16 comments:

Sue from Oregon said...

What a lovely rememberance of you Mom and a great creation. I bet this is a great addition to you tree.

Debbie Seyer said...

So beautiful and what a fantastic idea! I think I will ask my girls if they want to start this tradition! Wonderful!

Lynne Phelps said...

It has been five years for me since Mom died. I too create items to honor the memories I have of my wonderful mother. This is a lovely tag and a wonderful tradition to incorporate annual remembrances into your Christmas tree decorations!

Heather said...

This is such a beautiful tribute!

Kim Burmeister said...

Lynn, this is absolutely GORGEOUS! What a nice way to remember your loved ones! I love how you added the touches to remind you of your mother. I am sure she is looking down on you from heaven....SO PROUD of her daughter. Thanks for sharing this with us!

Kirsten Alicia said...

It's beautiful & I'm sure your mom would love it.

Crystal said...

Lynn this is soooo beautiful, I always love to see what you create for you mom. It brings tears to my eyes...and this creation is gorgeous in every way!!!

As for me too my mom passed away 3 years in October....Holidays are very emotional times of the year...but they are with us in our hearts and our memories.....Big Hugs to you!!!

Melissa Cash said...

Lynn, what a beautiful tag and story! Your Mom is indeed proud of you today! I lost my Dad in Aug 07, on my birthday. I will create a little something to remember him by and add it to the tree this year. Thank you for your inspiration! {{{hugs}}}

Donna said...

{{tears}} and {{hugs}} for you, my friend! what a way to honor your mom's memory to keep it alive! I love your tag, what a beautiful remembrance, I can totally understand why the holidays are bittersweet to you. Thank you for sharing your heart with us!

Anonymous said...

Your tag is gorgeous and is such a wonderful idea. My father died last year on Christmas Eve and my husband's 24 yr old son had died on December 2 so this year we are working hard at trying to celebrate their lives as opposed to mourning their passing. We too have a special tree ornament for each of them.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

Nancy said...

Lynne, I'm so glad you shared this idea and post with us. my 24 year old nephew passed away 4 months ago and I am dreading the Holidays this year and your post really helped a lot! My mom died 12 years ago and you like you said its always just a little tough.
Thanks for your blog and your inspiration.

Justine said...

This so touched my heart and what a fantastic way to honor your mom and her memory. Thank you for sharing this with us

Barbara said...

Beautiful and thank you for the inspiration. I feel your pain as my Mom died 24 years on Christmas Eve and it still is a very emotional time. She was the one that held our family together

i {heart} papers said...

This is beautiful. What a nice little tradition. For me, Easter has that same sad time of year.

Jennie said...

Just a beautiful way to remember you mom.... I pray you have a wonderful Thanksgiving full of memories of special Thanksgivings spent with your mom :o)

Juls said...

Just beautiful! Love the swirls and all the gorgeous details on this beautiful creation!